1. Seek God
2. Fight Fair
3. Have Fun
4. Stay Pure
5. Never Give Up
Ecclesiastes 9:7-9 NLT
So go ahead. Eat your food with joy, and drink your wine with a happy heart, for God approves of this! Wear fine clothes, with a splash of cologne! Live happily with the woman you love through all the meaningless days of life that God has given you under the sun. The wife God gives you is your reward for all your earthly toil.
Having fun is essential for a serious marriage!
3 Types of Fun Every Married Couple Must Enjoy:
Face to Face Fun
Song of Solomon 4:8-11 NLT
Come with me from Lebanon, my bride, come with me from Lebanon. Come down from Mount Amana…
You have captured my heart, my treasure, my bride. You hold it hostage with one glance of your eyes, with a single jewel of your necklace. Your love delights me, my treasure, my bride.Your love is better than wine, your perfume more fragrant than spices. Your lips are as sweet as nectar, my bride. Honey and milk are under your tongue. Your clothes are scented like the cedars of Lebanon.
Side to Side Fun
Song of Solomon 7:11-12 NIV
Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside, let us spend the night in the villages. Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom…
Belly Button to Belly Button Fun
Song of Solomon 7:6-10 NLT
(Solomon) Oh, how beautiful you are! How pleasing, my love, how full of delights! You are slender like a palm tree, and your breasts are like its clusters of fruit. I said, “I will climb the palm tree and take hold of its fruit.” May your breasts be like grape clusters, and the fragrance of your breath like apples. May your kisses be as exciting as the best wine…
(Bride) Yes, wine that goes down smoothly for my lover, flowing gently over lips and teeth. I am my lover’s, and he claims me as his own.